I had a bit of a panic this week. It happens. I get a bit down in the dumps sometimes as I’m not far away from turning 30 and I just feel a bit disappointed in where I am in life right now. When I was a teenager, I thought I’d have my own house by now and maybe be engaged.
I think the trigger that made me panic was that our landlord who lives with us in our shared house decided to re-decorate the lounge which is absolutely fine but I work from home in that room and no-one really bothered to tell me. My boyfriend told me a day or two before it was happening and it means I can’t work from home there for a bit. I just feel a bit put out, if that was me and I knew I was disturbing someone I would of sat them down and told them face to face but maybe that’s just me.
I’ve always wanted my own space. It’s just so expensive and I’m getting to stage where I almost just don’t believe it will ever happen again. It makes me sad. I just want somewhere to call my own.
I’m not really in the best position for it anyway. I’m on a temporary contract work wise which could end in the next few weeks and my boyfriend isn’t working. Still. Don’t get me started. I don’t want to push him because I know life is a bit all doom and gloom at the moment but I don’t feel like he’s trying as hard as he could. I know as soon as I say something it will cause an argument and I just don’t have the energy for it. I’m barely keeping it together as it is. We’re getting on well which is great considering I moved in properly during lockdown so it could of gone either way but I’m happy. He makes me happy but I’d be happier if he put more effort into finding a job. We could start getting back on the right path in life.
No wonder I feel so tired at the moment with all of this going on in my head but the point of writing this all down is so I can put my thoughts into some of order. I know I’m okay, deep down I do. I have a roof over my head with food and water, etc. I am lucky. I have a job (for now) and have money coming in to pay for things. I need to remember that I’m okay. Yes I don’t have the house or a ring but I’m good, really… I’m okay.
Things I’m grateful for today:
- Having pretty nails (currently blue and sparkly!)
- My parents living close by so I can work from home from theirs
- Baths
- Bath bombs
- Being able to read books
- Harry Potter
- Having a job
- Work being quiet so I can relax a little
- All the presents I’ve bought myself for my own advent calendar I’m creating
- Parcels – always exciting when parcels arrive
- Cats
- My dad who is letting me disrupt him working from home
- My boyfriend putting up with my nonsense
- Having a good relationship with both my boyfriend and family
- Friends who I can always message about anything
- Being able to go for a nice walk at lunch time
- headphones
- music